The people on your panel have already made the call you're facing.
The loudest thing a sealed product can show you is who sits for it. Every panel is drawn from people who have made the decision at hand — recently enough to remember the texture, far enough past it to be honest. The founding bench is being recruited one person at a time; names appear below, with permission, as they sign. We will not pad this page: an empty seat is more honest than a borrowed name.
Every name that appears here is a real person who agreed, in writing, to be listed — and who can be unlisted with one message. Until then the page stays short.
You've stood somewhere hard. Keep a seat open for the next person.
One written perspective, once or twice a year, for someone about to face what you've already survived — the call the 2am version of you never got to take. Sealed, confidential, on your schedule. You will know, every time, with the decider's permission, what your words changed. That's the deal, entire.
Offer to sit